Defending your Happiness

Defending your Happiness

If I ask you to defend your happiness, what would that mean to you? Does the idea of defending your happiness sound a little extreme? Does it sound like work? I hope that it sounds like work, because, just like everything else in life, it takes work to be happy. Your state of happiness should be deliberate and intentional. There will be moments of difficulty and even disappointment. However, you cannot allow those moments to consume you and hold your happiness hostage. One sure way to defend your happiness, involves distancing yourself from people who are always negative.

Have you ever been in an awesome mood, because something exciting happened? Did you pick up the phone to call a friend or loved one to share your good news? What happens next is very important. Either the person on the receiving end is excited for you or not. Unfortunately, within minutes, your joy and excitement can be sucked right out of you. This has happened to me, many times. Now that I recognize, how important it is to be surrounded by positive people, I intentionally limit my time spent around people who are negative and pessimistic. I still love them, but I must do so from a distance.

Take a minute to reflect upon the people whom you spend the most time with. Are they pushing you to grow or are they bringing you down? Do they pour into you or are they draining you? Connecting with people who are optimistic and goal-oriented is a great way to defend your happiness. This week, I challenge you to defend your happiness. Choosing to be happy will create the positive energy needed to enhance your relationships and your overall well-being!

Peace AND Blessings,

Dr. Jessica Houston
Success Coach and Empowerment Speaker
Expecting Victory

How committed are you to expanding your territory?

I hope that you are as excited as I am about all that is in store for 2017? I love helping people. I also love coaching, inspiring and training. However, I’ve come to the realization that some people SAY they want more, but they are not willing to do what it takes to see their vision manifest.

So, my first question for you is: How Hungry Are You?

My second question is: How determined are you to make 2017 your best year yet?

Today, I am challenging you to make 2017 the year that you boldly step into your greatness! What might your life look like if you pursued what you really wanted? There is no better time than now to unlock your destiny! I have an amazing training for those of you who desire to expand your territory in 2017 and it’s absolutely FREE! You can register now at http://bit.ly/unlockingyourdestiny

Peace AND Blessings,

Dr. Jessica Houston
Success Coach and Empowerment Speaker
Expecting Victory

In The Middle of God’s Will

In The Middle of God’s Will

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Pay very careful attention to the frustration that you feel when you decide to pursue your BIG VISION. Many times the tension and frustration that you experience is an indication that you are right in the middle of God’s will for your life. Don’t allow your feelings to forfeit the BEST THING that could ever happen to you. I am willing to bet that your breakthrough is right in front of you. The enemy WILL create fear and doubt when he sees that you are on the verge of manifesting God’s plan.

The enemy will make you feel like quitting and you will begin to have feelings you’ve never had before! The tension may begin to invade your sleep and clutter your mind. When you are pursuing your dreams, the enemy does everything he can to disrupt your path. Don’t even think about buying into the notion that manifesting your promise will be easy. Success looks pretty on the outside, but the truth is that struggle, disappointment and mistakes are a part of the process. Lack of patience is a great deceiver and discourager. .

Remember, when you are on target, you become a target. Your inner critic will try to convince you that you are not equipped for the path that you are on. Note: You will not create the life of your dreams without some tension. You cannot accomplish the extraordinary without some resistance.

Today, I am asking you to declare the blessings that God has for you. Keep pressing and you will see your promise manifest!

Until next time….

Dr. Jessica Houston, LMSW
Success Coach and Empowerment Speaker
Expecting Victory

KEEPING CALM IN THE MIDST OF A STORM

KEEPING CALM IN THE MIDST OF A STORM

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It is human nature to be anxious about a situation that is plaguing us. It is also common to focus on what is missing and how far away we are from our desired destination. However, when we focus on what is missing, it is almost impossible for us to experience genuine happiness. I know that I have not come close to experiencing all that God has intended for my life. However, even during difficult situations, I must be patient enough to wait until God is ready to reveal his plan. What do you need to hand over to God today? His desire is not for us to be worried, broken and unhappy. His desire is for us to be whole, prosperous and filled with unwavering joy.

God wants us to be confident in his ability to meet our needs. This means, that we cannot continually worry about how our situation is going to work out. There is often an urge to give up, when you are under pressure and cannot see the entirety of God’s plan. Unfortunately, if you succumb to the urge to give up, you forfeit the multitude of blessings that God has in store for you. Will you please take a moment to thank God for all that he has already done in your life? Stop right where you are and take a few deep breaths. Breathe, relax and let go of the urge to worry. If you think about it, God always comes through for you. It might not be within your desired timeframe, but he will respond to your request according to his divine timing. He knows when it is time to shift your circumstances. Push through your fears and hold on to God’s promise. Praise him in the midst of your battle and see what happens!

Peace AND Blessings

Dr. Jessica Houston
expectingvictory.com

Got Dreams?

Got Dreams?

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Do you realize that GOD has put a dream inside of you and HE has an intention that you will fulfill it? Today I want you to decide that you will not postpone your dream another day. Write that book! Get that degree! Pursue what you REALLY want! While settling seems to be less costly in the beginning, it ends up costing you so much more in the end. You don’t want to look back and think what if I had only…..

Those who are successful, don’t just dip their toe in the water, they dive in. They are committed to building their dream because they know that they will not truly be happy until they fulfill their destiny. One of the best things I could have done with my life was fulfill God’s desires for me. Your gift is your love offering to the world. Please don’t let it sit on the shelf!

At the Ultimate Empowerment Expo, I will be showing you how you can show up in a bigger and more impactful way. You can register here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-ultimate-empowerment-symposium-tickets-25961357118

I hope to see you there!

Take Care,