Have you ever had someone ruin a great conversation by reminding you of the person that you used to be? This is often a strategy used by those who are attempting to devalue your present and future accomplishments. Those who are not happy about the fact that you have a bright future ahead of you will try their best to keep you stuck in the past. People who intentionally bring up behaviors that you no longer identify with are hoping to make you feel as though you are not worthy of where you are headed. It is your duty to recognize that you are not defined by your past mistakes. When you focus on past behaviors, mistakes, or disappointments you literally agree to relinquish your happiness. Focusing on things that you do not have any control over is a waste of energy. Instead, focus on your strengths and how grateful you are for the blessings that are upon you at this very moment! I do not know about you, but I desire to be happy every single day of my life. In essence, I have decided that I will remain focused on my future. When I do look back at my past mistakes, I am actually very proud of the significant progress that I have made. Will you choose to let go of the past and move forward? Letting go of the past allows you to focus your time and energy in the right place. We do not have the power to change our past, but we do have the power to create an amazing future. As we near the end of 2013 and set our goals for 2014, remember that the best is yet to come!
Dr. Jessica Houston
http://expectingvictory.com/
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